Five Small Ways I’ve Learned to Show My Curls Love
When I first started my natural hair journey, I thought showing love to my curls meant doing deep treatments or buying fancy products, and while those things can help, I’ve realized that sometimes the smallest habits make the biggest difference.
So for today’s post, I wanted to share five simple but meaningful ways I’ve been showing my curls love lately, and how they’ve helped me feel more connected, confident, and cared for.
1. I put in effort to stop talking about my hair in such a negative manner
This one might seem obvious, but for a long time, I didn’t even notice how often I criticized my hair, calling it “frizzy,” “too much,” or wishing it looked like someone else’s. While I do still catch myself saying or thinking these kinds of things, I’ve made a real effort to change that inner dialogue.
Now I try to say things like “my hair feels soft today,” or “I love how full it looks.” Speaking kindness over your curls matter. Your hair hears you, and so do you.
2. I detangle with more patience
Instead of rushing through detangling like it’s a chore, I’ve started treating it as an act of care. I detangle gently with my favorite detangler, breathe, and take my time. It’s made a big difference in both breakage and how I feel, like I’m nurturing rather than fighting my curls.
3. I stopped over-styling
I used to restyle constantly, thinking my hair had to be “done.” Now I know it’s more than okay to just let my curls be, whether that’s in braids, a puff, or out and free. Less manipulation is more peace for me (and less breakage).
4. I try not to compare my curls to others
It’s so easy to scroll and start thinking your curls “should” look different. But I’ve made a conscious decision to love what grows from my scalp, frizz, shrinkage, texture changes and all. My hair doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s to be beautiful.
5. I share what I’ve learned with others
Whether I’m posting here, texting friends, or answering questions, passing on what I’ve learned is a way of loving my curls and uplifting the community!
Final Thoughts
Showing love to your curls doesn’t have to mean doing the most. Sometimes, it just means being a little gentler, a little more patient, and a lot more grateful. Whether your hair is freshly defined or rocking its fluffy, frizzy freedom, it deserves love.
So if no one’s told you today: Your curls are worthy. You are doing great!
Let’s Chat!
What’s one small way you show your curls love? What’s your favorite curl-positive affirmation? Leave a comment, I’d love to hear what’s working for you!
Thank you for being here!
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